Getting Results BEing the Confident Boss Babe

by | Nov 17, 2019 | Journal | 0 comments

Getting Results

“Getting Results BEing the Confident Boss Babe” –  We all need a little Monday Morning Motivation at times. We need humor, and inspiration to be the amazing boss babe that can rock her business and stay focused.

I used to view Mondays as going into battle. You know the kind where the one who is best prepared wins the war!  I definitely did approach the week being confident. 

You’re in the right place if:

  • you are tired of the trash talking inner mean girl limiting your success.
  • you want to get more clients without the hustle.
  •  you have one struggle after another that pops up and you just can’t seems to hit that next level no matter how hard you try.
  • you struggle with fear and doubt in your business, and you need that inner mean girl to just shut up and let you be awesome.
  • you work and work, but feel like it is always one step forward and two steps back.
  • you have half *ss habits that are holding you back, you know they are there, but haven’t benn able to replace them long term.
  • You want to be more confident in business and in life.

Who was I fighting against?

  • The lazy me
  • The me who says things to myself in my head that I would never say to another human because they are mean
  • The I’ll do it later me
  • The me that would half- ass my business
  • The self doubting, I’m not expert enough me
  • The me that holds me back and sabotages myself before I get started
  • The I don’t deserve this me
  • The I just need to work harder and longer me
  • The stressed out and overwhelmed me

Struggling to Like Myself

This version of me was unfocused and struggled to motivate herself much less attract customers and clients. I remember holding discovery call after discovery call with potential clients during this time. I had my script outline and I know intellectually all the things to say and ask to create a client or customer, but some how I never did.
 
I mean seriously how could I attract clients when I wasn’t even attracted to myself. I didn’t like who I was.

The Fight

I would fight hard to silence her. But sadly enough, NO matter what I did, what actions I took, somehow she would always come back around. Oh she might have been in hiding for a few weeks or even a couple of months. But eventually, I would get tired of fighting her and she would sneak back into control.
 
The the war would start again. It was exhausting to always be battling myself.

Two Versions of Myself

I felt like I had two versions of myself. The one above, and then another amazing version inside of me. I just had to figure out how to unleash her.
 
But I wasn’t there! I had to figure out how to move from that old self into the Angela I wanted to be.
 
Good news friend you get to design and plan who you are. You are not your circumstances or your past. Praise God!
 
I was so glad to realize this because friend I was struggling. The more I had the challenges come against me, the more I started asking myself some questions.

The Wrong Questions

With some guidance and practice, I realized I was asking the wrong type of questions.
 
I was saying things like:
  1. What’s wrong with me?
  2. Why did that work out for her?
  3. What will others think if I…?
  4. Why can’t I get a client?
  5. How can I “get” a client/ customer?
You see I got to the point where I realized that if I kept asking myself the same old questions, had the same old thinking, then I was going to keep getting the same old results.

Half Ass Results

I knew that was not what I wanted. Minimal success and half ass results were not for me. I knew deep down I was meant for more. I was capable of more. If only I could get my inner mean girl to shut the hell up or even better start working with me. Then I could make the magic happen in my life and business.
 
Can you relate? I am guess yes, or you wouldn’t still be reading this post!

Changing My Thinking

Friend, the first thing I did was start changing the questions I was asking myself. It was a the step I needed to silence my inner critic and start turning her around to my way of thinking.
 

Here are some of the questions I began asking myself:

 

  1. How is my life working out? Am I ok with that? Am I willing to make changes?
  2. How can I add more connections into my business?
  3. How can I network and still add value to others?
  4. How can I practice my coaching stills and grow while helping others.
  5. How are my relationships with my family, friends, co-workers, coaches and mentors?
  6. How effectively am I feeding my mind?
  7. How many books have I read in the last six months?
  8. What do I wish to become? Who do I want to BE?
  9. How would that version of me act? What actions would she take?
  10. How satisfied am I with how my goals have manifested in my life? Am I willing to make changes? What do I need to learn to make that happen?
  11. How can I be myself and attract people to me?
  12. What value can I get prospective clients that will help them see the value in working with me.
  13. What are the benefits to….?
  14. What might happen if…..? Is that what I want? If not, then what can I do about it?
These questions helped me refocus.

Alignment 

Finally I started down the path to make peace and silence that old version of me. I discovered ways to unleash the version of Angela that was audacious and ready to BE:
 
  • The 5 am me
  • The morning meditation me
  • The me that likes who I am and has stopped seeking others validation
  • The Intentional me that gets shit done
  • The courageous me that is willing to fall on her face in front of the world if it means growing
  • The taking time to breathe me
  • The work less and get more done me
  • The attracting my soulmate clients me
  • The confident, I rock as a coach me
This is the me ⬆️ who WINS. She is balanced, confident and courageous and ready to manifest her dreams.  She is Aligned with her mindset, actions, and dreams.

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So How are Your Monday Mornings?

So how is your Monday? Are you going to battle or have you stepped into BEing the courageous and confident CEO of your life and business.
 
If you are ready to reach for confidence and start feeling like the rock star you know is inside of you then grab my 5 steps to silence your inner mean girl and step into confidence. You will uplevel your life and start attracting your dream clients and customers which is what most of us want for our business.

Next Steps:

What part of today’s blog spoke to you?  Go with your gut.  The part of you when you were reading that said… yep that is me.

Ready to learn more about unleashing your success and getting your inner critic to stop sabotaging you??

I’ve helped women entrepreneurs like you learn all about ending the mental stress and struggles that comes with building a business, so you can:

  • Feel confident in your choices and decisions for your life and business.
  • Develop a step by step plan and get unstuck, so you can renew your mindset, stop stressing, and finally get stuff done.
  • Feel focused and more confident as you show the world you do have what it takes.
  • Experience a more balanced life and renew your mind, so you can feel like the best version of yourself in both business and your family.

Now is your time to make your dreams a reality!

Truth is that building a strong confident mindset, reducing stress, and learning to anchor habits into long term actions is the KEY to building a money making business.

 

Here is what you do…

1. Grab my FREE 5 Steps to Silence Your Mean Girl Cheatsheet!  This is designed to help you stop self sabotaging your business with half-assed habits and inner criticism. You can be the courageous and confident CEO of your life and business.  
 
2.  Connect with me on Facebook in my Private Facebook Group The Female Entrepreneur Connection.  There you can catch almost daily live videos to help inspire and motivate you to your greatness. Plus you will get to collaborate, connect and network with other professionals and entrepreneurs.
 
3.  Book a FREE 1 time Strategy session with me to see if coaching is the right next step for you.
 
 When you are ready for a step by step system to actually reach your goals you will do what it takes.  It’s time to open yourself up for unlimited possibilities.  Unleash your success and step in to your greatness my friend!

Until Next week.  Go grab your dreams and don’t let go.

XOXO,

Angela

 

 

Angela Naumann 

Life Coach to the Female Entrepreneur that is ready to transform her life!

About Me

 Welcome!

Congratulations on deciding to reach for your dreams.  It’s your time!  I am so excited that you are showing up for yourself by reading my blog.   It is my hope that my blog posts will inspire you and give you simple practical steps to rock your best life.  

Who is this blog for: 

  • Women that are working hard to grow their online business.
  • They have a product or service that they have created and they are working to bring it to the world.
  • Women that are setting goals, but are struggling to make them become a reality.
  • Women that although the are go getters and do all the right things, they have some mindset issues or limiting beliefs that seem to be holding them back.
  • Women that are want to transform their life and business, and Sister, they are willing to chase the moon to do it.
  • Women that sometimes get stressed and overwhelmed to the point that their personal life and business seem to suffer.
  • Women that are determined to not stay in that stress and overwhelm, but are ready to uncover what is holding them back so they can move forward.
  • Women that may have some old habits they want to break, and in turn build new habits that will last.

Who am I?

I am Angela Naumann, boymom, bookie nerd, and amateur wine taster. I’ve been married for over 20 years and love to go on adventures with my family. 

After 20+ years of my own entrepreneurial and personal growth journey, I became a life coach for women that sometimes needed a “Yoda” in their life. 

I help the female entrepreneur that is setting big audacious goals, but struggling to make them a reality.  Which leaves them feeling stressed out, not getting stuff done, wondering how to balance life while not be a moody witch. 

With a practical step by step strategy, I guide you to uncover what is stopping you, build confidence with a step by step system that is unique to them and their business So, they can uplevel their life and unleash their success.  Basically together we unleash your success!!

I’m excited to be on this journey with you!  

XOXO,

Angela Naumann

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